Tips on Coping with Anxiety
You’ll probably notice that you move at a much faster pace when you’re feeling anxious or burned out. Which makes so much sense! You’re probably trying to pick up the pace due to feeling under pressure.
You’re probably feeling Anxious and Under Pressure due to…
having way too many tasks to accomplish at work
with quickly approaching deadlines
feeling like you don’t have enough time or energy to do it all
receiving little to no support from others
people expecting a lot from you
or maybe you expecting a lot from yourself
an overwhelming amount of things to take care of in your personal life like…
Chores:
doing laundry
washing dishes
cooking and meal prepping
cleaning
Errands:
grocery shopping
going to the gym
taking the kids to practice
scheduling, attending and accompanying your loved ones to doctor appointments
Supporting others such as your…
children
parents
friends
family
coworkers
or other people you don’t even have a close relationship with
this leads me to wonder, who’s showing up for you?
Whatever the case may be, I empathize with you.
Now here’s one thing I’ve learned. When most people have a lot to do, they find themselves picking up the pace and beginning to rush. But rushing doesn’t necessarily mean you’ll be able to get it all done. Rushing doesn’t mean you’ll accomplish much more than you would if you paced yourself. Rushing also doesn’t guarantee that you will get things done quicker. The only thing that’s guaranteed from constantly rushing is you feeling…
exhausted
stressed
irritable
frustrated
anxious
burned out
Practice Moving at a Slower Pace
Now, moving at a slower, more easygoing pace, doesn’t necessarily mean you’ll fall behind schedule. Moving at a slower, more easygoing pace doesn’t mean you won’t accomplish all you need to get done either. You’ll be surprised to find out that you may end up getting more done by refusing to rush. Which may not make sense to you until you actually practice moving at a slower pace.
Once you change your pace, you’ll notice some shifts beginning to happen for you. These shifts that take place will be both mental and physical. Mentally, you will start to experience your overwhelming thoughts transition from racing to coming and going at a much slower pace. Physically, you’ll start to experience a greater sense of peace. The kind of peace that feels comforting, tranquil, and serene. The kind of peace that leads to…
a decrease in muscle tension
a reduced heart rate
deeper/fuller breathes
you becoming more attuned to the world around you
being more aware of what you see, smell, taste, hear, and feel
If you don’t experience some of this happening naturally, now that you’re moving slower, you can purposefully take that extra time to notice the details of everything previously mentioned.
Try Practicing Mindfulness
Again, if it doesn’t occur naturally, make space to practice mindfulness by…
feeling and listening to your heartbeat
doing a mental scan of your body to see if there’s any tension in a certain area
paying attention to the way you’re breathing
Ask yourself…
“Am I taking full breathes or is my breathing more shallow?”
“Am I breathing slowly or fast?”
“Am I even remembering to breathe or am I finding that I’m holding my breath?”
After weeks of practice, you will have transitioned to naturally moving at a more easygoing pace. It is then that you’ll get one step closer to overcoming burnout and better coping with anxiety.
To better cope with anxiety and overcome burnout, once and for all, you may benefit from some support.
You show up for so many things and so many people. Now it’s time for someone to show up for you.
You Deserve Some Support For Your Anxiety!
So If you’re…
an adult residing in the state of Florida, USA
are ready to start receiving individual therapy
want to learn how to cope with as well as overcome anxiety
… then feel free to get in contact with me to schedule a free 15-minute phone consultation.
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